Reflections on turning 48: Telemachus, family serving good wine, and a friend who sees my story
Story has the power to get to the depths of life in a way theology, philosophy or even psychology doesn’t. Some stories or references keep coming up for my reflection — one for me is the story of The Odyssey. As a teenager, I probably didn't really know the story, but I knew my Dad loved the poem/line from Tennyson's Ulysses "I am a part of all that I have met." Also, I remember my Dad heard a commencement speaker say something like "Live a life like Telemachus - find joy in tending to the garden." I didn't understand what that meant but when my Dad is inspired by a story, he tells it a lot so I remember him retelling that commencement address often, and I got the gist of it. Telemachus isn't the one with the fancy stories, but maybe he had a good life. "Enjoy the small things" type lesson. In my 30s, when I taught 8th-grade World History about the river valleys and Greece/Rome, I used a great lesson from History Alive on the story...