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Christmas-Ephiphany Letter

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Advent ~ Christmas ~ Epiphany Greetings  As 2024 winds down, I’m thinking about highs and lows for our family, for our country and for our world. The Franciscan friar Father Richard Rohr says “we daringly believe that God’s presence was poured into a single human being, so that humanity and divinity can be seen to be operating as one in him.. . .Through his incarnated presence, Jesus offered the world a living example of fully embodied love that emerged out of ordinary, limited life situations.” So my wish as I reflect on this year is for us to be reminded of that embodied love, often from people who show up in our lives, which more often than not is more ordinary than the curated Christmas card collage or social media picture.   Our year: the curated and the ordinary.  Last December, we went to Fredericksburg to honor the retirement of our dear friend and minister, Patti. There, the girls and I shed a lot of tears for what we missed and the times that had passed. Beca...

Hard Things

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 Summer is officially over this weekend and three weeks ago, we moved Anna Cate in to her dorm room at the University of Tennessee. For many ways, it is the culmination of the entire Senior year and I knew it was coming, but for some reason, the weeks leading up to it gutted me in a way I didn't really expect.  I remember driving to school last year and talking about why I wasn't emotional about her "lasts" and I think it was that I was happy that she has her life ahead of her, and I am confident in the foundation she has. As I have not hidden from those who know me, this is not the childhood I would have planned for her. In fact, in many ways, she was having the childhood I wanted for her before our life changed in 2016.  That is not to say there is no joy, that there are no gifts in the unexpected journey.  Also, this summer prepared us a little bit for her leaving in that she was a counselor at a camp where she spent Sunday-Fridays, with little to no phone service...